Group dynamics?

Different groups have different size. Some have more members, some less.

Every groups have different purposes, hence the varying size. This also apply to group chats.

This blog an anecdote on why I left some group chats.

I was invited to a group chat, which consisted of 4 boys, 4 including me. Basically, the purpose of this group is to have some 'bro-chat'. That's our platform to discuss on our outings and latest gossips (actually cars... but I'm not into cars)

The one of us left the group. Maybe because he felt alienated (serves him right for being a double-sided sword). Since, we have known his true colour, the chat evolves into gossip chat, gossiping on that boy.

Then, the group 'expands' by adding more girls. Initially, we still can carry on with our regular guy chats. Then, the boys were outnumbered by the girls, and it's hard to have a regular 'guy-talk'.

So I left the group and told them it's personal and they could private message me directly.

The group owner (by owner I mean the creator) kinda warned me that I would miss the updates.

It's been a couple months since I left the group, and I don't miss it at all... I occupied my free time exercising, losing weight faster than when I were in the group.

I have better sleep.

I have more time to explore the world myself.

Yes, I feel liberated.

I left the group because it doesn't serve it's initial purpose, which is to be a platform for us guys to talk anything guys talk about without being judge by the girls.