I do have slight problem with touching and personal space. Just ask my best friend. I would feel awkward touching other people, let alone hugging.
Sometimes, I just feel guilty touching other people. Part of it is a result of studying medicine. Healthcare workers are potential germ spreader. It's a well known fact. It is strongly advised to wash one hands before and after touching a patient. It's not that they're germaphobe, or disgusted with patients. So, sometimes I refuse to shake hands because I don't want to spread my germs to you. I might pick my nose, scratch my butt, or bite my nails. Don't get offended.
Another reason is partly religious. It's also a known fact that among Muslims, non family of the opposite sex are not allowed to touch. Non-muhrim*. Although I am not a Muslim, I do practise it. However not every body adhere strictly to this custom. So, sometimes I am a pain in the ass to Muslim lady toll attendant. I would avoid at all cost to touch her. I would apologise if I do touch them accidentally. Sorry, toll lady. I just want to avoid you from commit sin. If I must touch, I'll ask for permission with presence of a chaperone.
Am I having OCD or just odd... nope, I'm just being responsible.
I should just wear gloves next time...
* http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mahram
No comments:
Post a Comment